This variation is both fun and sexy but has the potential to be intimate as well. The face-to-face nature of this position makes it ideal for caressing, eye contact, and kissing. She takes the lead by sitting him down on a chair, a couch, or the edge of the bed. As she faces him, she climbs onto his lap. If the couple is already in the woman-on-top position (Cowgirl or Reverse Missionary), he can just sit upright, so that she is essentially sitting in his lap.
Lap Dance Face Off
Her weight is on his thighs, and she may try placing her legs on his shoulders, if she is flexible. She may also place her hands on his thighs or the back of the chair to control the thrusting. She can hold on to his shoulders and lean back, move her hips closer to his torso and wrap her arms around his neck for a more intimate embrace, or bounce up and down on him. She can also move down onto her knees between his legs and put her lips around his penis, looking up into his eyes as she takes it in her mouth.
He can pull her hips back and forth to assist with or control the speed of thrusting. Leaning back will change the angle of penetration.
If she wants to keep her underwear on, and he keeps his clothes on, this position is great for a bit of teasing with a little more coverage, such as if she visits him in his office for a little afternoon delight. Alternatively, she can unleash her inner stripper and get creative with props, sexy lingerie, and even dance moves.
