Safer Sex Planner

Safer sex involves several decisions that are easier to make before an intimate moment. The Safer Sex Planner gives you a structured checklist for discussing protection, pregnancy prevention where relevant, STI testing, boundaries and practical preparation without pretending that one plan works for everyone.

What does the planner cover?

• Condoms or other barriers
• Contraception where pregnancy is possible
• STI testing conversations
• Sexual activities and boundaries
• The ability to pause or stop
• Having the supplies you intend to use available

How to use the planner

1. Read each planning question together or separately.
2. Choose Yes only when the topic has actually been discussed and understood.
3. Use Unsure when you need more information.
4. Select Review Our Plan.
5. Resolve any highlighted topics before relying on assumptions.

What the planner can and cannot do

The tool can remind you about common planning areas. It cannot calculate your personal STI risk, tell you which contraceptive method is right for you or decide which tests you need. Those questions depend on factors such as anatomy, sexual practices, age, medical history and individual risk.

Condoms and other barriers can reduce the risk of many sexually transmitted infections when used correctly, but no barrier makes every sexual activity risk-free. Pregnancy prevention methods also differ in how they work and how they should be used. If you need advice about testing, contraception, symptoms, possible exposure or medication, speak with an appropriate healthcare professional.

Consent belongs in safer-sex planning too

Protection is not the only part of a safer plan. Both people should be able to discuss which activities are acceptable, what protection they want and when they want to stop. Agreement about condoms or contraception does not create consent for a sexual activity.

Privacy

We do not store any data or send it to an external service.

Use the Safer Sex Planner as a preparation checklist. Its value comes from identifying conversations that have not happened yet so you can address them calmly before making decisions in the moment.

Frequently Asked Questions

Does the Safer Sex Planner calculate STI risk?

No. It is a planning checklist, not a medical risk calculator.

Does using condoms remove all STI risk?

No. Correct condom or barrier use can reduce risk, but it does not eliminate every route of transmission.

Does the tool recommend a contraceptive method?

No. It reminds you to discuss pregnancy prevention where relevant but does not provide personalised medical advice.

What if we do not know our testing needs?

A healthcare professional can help determine which tests and timing are appropriate based on individual circumstances and sexual practices.

Does agreeing on protection mean we have consented to sex?

No. Protection decisions and consent are separate. Consent must still be voluntary, specific and ongoing.

Are our answers stored?

No. We do not store any data or send it to an external service.

Can we use the tool again when our situation changes?

Yes. Revisit the planner when partners, activities, protection choices or health circumstances change.