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Sex Positions

Poles Apart

To get into the Poles Apart variation of the Tailgate position, she rolls onto her side, with her back to him, and turns 180 degrees so her feet are near his head. Or they can slide down together so they meet closer in the middle. He will have easy access to her hips and thighs and can easily slide his penis into her.

Even though their heads and faces are poles apart, they are curled forward, and the bend in their bodies allows for more eye contact than any of the other rear-entry positions. This is an excellent position to see each other’s facial expressions of arousal, excitement, and orgasm. There is also quite a bit of skin-to-skin contact in this position.

Poles Apart
Poles Apart

She can swing her legs over his hips to get into a more comfortable position with greater access to her vagina.

He can grab her by her thighs and hips to maneuver into a good position for penetration. He can lavish attention on her inner and outer thighs.

This variation is excellent for him to initiate oral sex on her. Depending on their heights (for shorter torsos), his face may be close to her vagina. He may also pull out to give himself more room. In much the same vein, he has excellent access to her clitoris and vulva, which makes this rear-entry position a favorite among women.

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