Lap Dance Squared

This variation of the Lotus position invites creative, wild, and flirty fun. A lap dance is a well-known dance that a woman can do for a man to arouse, tease, and play, and is often seen in strip clubs, but it is definitely not limited to them. Most men find that a lap dance is intense foreplay. Getting in the position is much the same as the Lotus. It’s what the couple does beforehand that gets this variation going.

The woman can engage all of the man’s senses. She can put on some sultry, sexy dance music and wear something sensual, such as lingerie. Or she can wear her regular clothes and have sexy lingerie underneath, revealing the lingerie with a striptease first. The key to a lap dance is holding eye contact with him. While the eyes are locked in, she can dance herself toward him, gyrating her hips and shoulders as she slowly makes her way across the room. The key here is the visuals: He gets to watch her confident, sexy body. When she is ready she can climb into his lap, wrap her arms around his neck, and have a make-out session. Then, when both are ready, let the thrusting begin.

He can hold on to her hips and squeeze her ass as she sits on his lap. He can continue intense eye contact to show that he is appreciating her efforts. And he can enjoy the show she is putting on for him and respond with approval and acceptance.

It’s no mystery that a confident woman or man is sexy. Partners can take turns enacting the seductive ritual this position invites. It will not only make sex more fun but will also build a stronger, more vibrant connection for all sex play.