Splitting of a Bamboo Position

Splitting the bamboo position requires a little flexibility. From the Lotus position, she lies back on the bed, bends one leg, and extends the other leg over his shoulder. He kneels and straddles her bent leg.

Because her hands are free, she can stimulate herself. She can also arch her back and tilt her pelvis to encourage G-spot stimulation. She needs to be very supple for this to work well, as her legs will play a starring role. Wait until you know each other well before you try this out, as the windmilling legs and the strange but wonderful sensations may put a new lover off his stride. Make sure that she’s at the peak of arousal, as the vaginal canal needs to expand to accept the depth of penetration that this position enables.

Use your legs to help your vagina squeeze his penis while he thrusts (you may want to emphasize the role of your legs by wearing stockings and garter belt). Just raise one leg onto his shoulder, then lower it; raise the other leg, then lower it. Repeat as desired. Some believe that this is impossible, but it is worth trying.

If you bring your legs almost together and then move them, you’ll squeeze his penis in a completely unfamiliar way, adding new sensations to his experience of thrusting. Do tell him that you’re about to perform this leg-swapping maneuver, as whacking your lover with a stray foot could ruin the moment.

He can use a free hand to touch her and caress the leg that is resting on his shoulder. He can hold on to her upstretched thigh or her hips to push her up and down on him.

Both partners have a clear view of each other’s faces and can watch each other’s responses and expressions. This builds intimacy and heightens arousal.